Merski,
You of all people should wonder if the Elizabeth you are looking for isn't, in fact, Joannun Conner. The date of the marriage that I found fits, the date of the baptism fits, the names are a bit off. What are the odds? How many J. Connor/conner/o'conner/etc. married a Catherine on Dec. 3, 1853, and then had a baby in Sept. 1854? How many times have we said not to get cought up on names, (spellings, middle names used as common names, Latin names in church records not matching the english, ie. John and James)? As for the maiden name of Catherine... someone got it wrong. Was it when Gibson wrote it in his trip book? Was it when Boyce prepared the "return" for the city? Have you ever found Catherine Hurley/various spellings prior to Dec. 1853? Will you now look for Catherine Jordan? Does Gorman ring a bell?
I have seen people on this forum refuse to accept information you have provided because it didn't fit exactly with something that they "know." You were very kind not to say... "Are you blind?" I will try to follow your example. John ps you're welcome